Random true life short stories, incidents

Someone knocked on my door

Someone knocked on my door, no one knocks on my door, I consider in announced door knocking to be curse.



A knock at the door totally scares me now, cause most who knock at door, unannounced, bring hellish news these days.

So I figured the same, was laying down on couch in the dark...

'Knock knock Knock'...light knock, not a cop knock, but very light.

I was instantly annoyed, but realize where I live.

Figured it was either..

1. person knocking on wrong door
2. Drug addict

Either way I got up to confront knocker, but in doing so, as moving fold up chair aside, tripped over chair, and fell backwards n the dark...

Well turns out person knocking was neighbor who simply needed a 'jump' since their car battery was dead.

But they later told me when I triped over chair, they thought it was the sound of a 'shot gun' cocking...LOL

And is why they stood to the side of doorway.

Don't get me wrong, I had a 'piece' but it sure wasn't no shotgun...(smirk)

My next Neighbor

My last neighbor moved out, they were leasing month to month, and were a 'b' Lesbian, when first moved in they moved in with a or their 'partner', another 'b' female Lesbian.
When they first moved in there was a lot more activity in their place, lots of visitors ect.

Then got silent for a while, the fighting began, I mean violent fighting, so much so had to move into the next room cause the violent fighting would begin after midnight and continue for hours, cops were even called a few times in the end, and overheard 'restraining orders' being given...but still the fighting continued, and one of the Lesbians were taken to jail.

And on a few occasions males were involved which were used as 'muscle' by one of the women...it just got very ugly.

But for last few months pretty quiet as it was just the one Lesbian woman living alone..now they're gone, place is empty so here we go again, who will be my next neighbor?

Since I've been here the neighbors to me immediate left and on same floor have pretty much been 'B' females or couples, with exception of an Hispanic Lady from Texas and her grown son who was do to join the Marines shortly...and this has been over 6 years ago, since then just black, black and more black females, either alone or Mother daughter combo or other combos.


Here's what I've learned about 'B' adult females who live in apartments
(at least where I stay)

1. Unlike on TV, which makes black females seem outgoing with personalities and all (forced roles, token roles, is why they call it 'acting' I guess)

I find in real life adult black females from hood areas are just the opposite once out of school...they're usually very withdrawn, lack any kind of personality, and aren't socially adventurous at all in the least bit, just come home, lock the door and don't make any new friends, especially if a male...it's like once they have their hobbit or hobbits through laying around earlier in life, no more room for men, even responsible ones.

I find black women are just as if not more paranoid than adult 'W' women are...they have their close set of friends or family, and after that the door of socialization is locked.

I think it's cause they have such a bad experience with men that after a certain age, after have own hobbit outside of marriage, I think they just lock the doors to the idea of romance or anything and turn Lesbian (where I stay that's been the trend)

As such I really hope that the next people or person who moves in aren't 'b' women.
None have ever been in a stable relationship, none, and if not Lesbian, than sleep around late at night, as encountered 'b' dude walking up back steps on night to visit one of my previous b female neighbors.

Again, as such, I really hope next person, people, who move in aren't urban and 'b'.

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It'll never happen, but I'd really like for next neighbor to be either older working class employed single 'b' male and or a 21-30 year old single white LGBTQ type of white male.

So either a older mature employed single 'b' male, or a younger thin, fem type of white gayish male...that's whom I'd really like as next neighbor after living around Lesbian b females so many years, and a few black couples, who are just as withdrawn, one mixed couple, as in b male and w woman..more sociable they were but had two very viscous dogs.

I'll explain why I would prefer my next neighbor to be either a gayish younger 'w' male or trans type or, or a older employed single 'b' male...I'll explain my rational for then in follow up post sometime in the future.

Truth is, most 'B' urban, or should say 'South' urban B females are just very uncultured.

I mean think about it a steady diet of R&B and rap is not 'culture', it's a mindset.

And most urban B females with less than a college degree just lack culture, and have a very limited view on life, like their male counter parts.

Things are either loud or quiet, black or white, this or that, but no shades of in between.

And because most urban B females raised without a loving Father around, on the insides they're just like their male counterparts, void of 'trust', void of relationship building and learning how to work things out with civilly.
It's either calm or start yelling, relaxed or hyper excited and angry, no in between emotions.

It's like 'my way or no way'...that's the streets mentality, or 'hood' mentality, and most urban B women you deal with are of that make, less than college educated and basically blue collar.

What college can do is give people a broader sense of the world, a much wider perspective on self and others...not always, but that's the aim...(of course now days colleges have been hi-jacked by a certain political mindset, but that's for another post).

A b urban female and a b urban male are raised in the exact same environment and so on the inside are exactly the same, except on wears a dress and the other doesn't (I know, that's a old fashion analogy), but you get my point.

Fathers bring a lot of maturity to a household, good ones that is, and I wish more urban women realized this, but they don't nor do they care is why the cycle continues.

I don't have any solution and hope your next neighbors are what you want, regardless of their color or gender or orientation.