I don't want aggressive gay roommate who thinks I'll be their side mate on the side.
Cause such types can get jealous of you, and it can become like that movie 'Fatal attraction'.
This guy is from Germany.
Here's the thing about me, just cause I can be silly and playful at times, doesn't mean I want 'romance'.
And when I drink, I get a bit playful, or serious, just depends on current environment.
But if have some gay dude just waiting for me to 'slip', nah.
I need to be able to trust the person I'm rooming with, even if they're gay, I still need to be able to trust them and know my boundaries...example of that would be
Lets say one weekend I come home frustrated, have a few beers, then start acting theatrical, I need to know that even when I'm in state of silliness, 'gay' roommate would be like 'Hey, that's not really you, let me put you to bed or lay blanket over you.
See what I'm saying?
In other words you have to be able to trust that person your rooming with would respect your boundaries even if drunk, or depressed or this or that.
But if someone is just standing by waiting to 'exploit' you the minute you 'slip', than that's like having a monster living with you.
And that's how you really end up liking someone, or not caring about gender, is when you find someone who you really feel has your back, regardless of your vulnerable state at the time.
That's how I am, in that the sexiest person, male or female, could come at me, but if I felt 'it wasn't really them', I'd simply take on 'guardian role' at that time.
Even if they said 'I'm yours' (while drunk or depressed or other mood), if I felt it wasn't 'them', or that they weren't in right state of mind, I'd simply take on guardian role and put them to bed, or lay blanket over them ect.....that's just how I am.
I actually care about others, regardless of my own personal needs wants or desires.
I treat others as I'd want to be treated (I know that's an outdated term we all heard in Church), but that's what decent people do, we treat others as we'd want to be treated.
Evil people could care the less and just want to eat you.
I just deleted add...why do I always do this, run add, get responses, then freak out, then delete...
Again, humans, any human, is a great responsibility...and maybe it's because I'm so caring which makes me vulnerable....
People tend to take advantage of you if you're a caring type, they'll eat you up.
Play on your emotions.
Now suddenly you have vampire living with you that you can't get rid of.
Who needs that crap.
Or maybe you just need phyciatric help?
Maybe you've been alone and isolated for so long, that need to learn how to be around humans again.
I'm so lonely I don't trust myself, I mean I'm so lonely that would probably fall in love with a goat, if goat were my roommate, and as such, I don't trust myself to live around another human being, not in a roommate setting anyways.