Life in the hood...Life around hood folks...

If a traditional raised male of color, and move to the city around 'apartment women', you'll be totally disappointed

If a traditionally raised male of color, or even 'black' and from say the Pacific NW, as in the rural parts of Washington State or Idaho or Montana, Utah, ect, you'll be greatly disappointed if move to urban area, particulalry the South East old south areas, and have to live around urban bred drama mamma hood type females.

1. Can't cook, don't want to cook.

2. Have no use for a traditional male of color, all they'll see you as is a 'breeder', once you breed with them, they could care the less what happens to you after that and would prefer you not even come around, until they're 'in heat' again and need some quick romance.

3. They know nothing about the outdoors as in camping, rafting, hiking, or any type of survivalist preparedness type of stuff, all they know is the Dollar store, rap music and Walmart.

4. Unlike rural white women or Hispanic women or Asian women, urban 'b' females will leave you in a heart beat should anything go wrong and get those food stamps and have more babies out of wedlock, that's just how they roll.

5. Terrible at conversating over deep issues, unless it's gossip, or unless you're acting like some stereotypical hood guy to them, their eyes will gaze over, urban women in the hood areas just aren't exposed to much at all, and it shows when you try conversing with them, it's like the mind is blank or something..unless you say 'money'.

6. The Government and Democrats are their god, is why we now have Biden in office and 100's of 1000's of migrants flooding the border, and is why crime is spiking out of control everywhere now, cause that's what urban 'B' females voted for and into office.
Notice every city where urban 'b' females have majority of the vote, notice how in utter ruin the city usually is.

7. Urban 'B' females see strong competent men as a threat, instead of a gift, and don't think you, as a strong male, have any reason to raise a hobbit, they instead see you as a threat, and would rather raise their hobbits around other women, and then wonder why male mild grows up with so many mental issues, sagging pants by age 10, acting hood, gangsta by age 11, you see this cycle repeated over and over and over and over again, some women just never learn, and mentally and morally never advance.

8. Introverted as hell, make terrible neighbors, and more and more are becoming off the radar 'Lesbians'...

And I'll stop there, but just saying if a traditional male of color, who thinks you're going to find a traditional women in the city who doesn't have tatoos all over body and looks more like a gangsta than a housewife, than you'd better think twice before moving from where you are to the city, unless you already have a lover or family that's already intact.

But if a male of color and have a wife, and hobbits, and go to the city, the black women there will look at you like you're an alien from another planet.

Never move to an area where you seen grown black males in their 40's riding bicycles.

Either you get that or you don't.

How come 'B' males in the hood areas all conditioned to say 'Oh, I don't know anything about that'?

Who raises these 'B' males to be so shifty?

I think more and more 'B' males are waking up to the fact that their Mothers raise them to fail, by seperating them from their Fathers, or not waiting to get married before having them.

I'm noticing more and more 'B' males are like 'The heck with this', and realizing they're more than their Mothers low expectation and life of crime and rap music path they've set for them.

I think more and more 'B' urban males want to be more and rise above the hood level of life.

Are there female 'thugs?'

Heck ye there are female thugs, the same environment that effects males, effects females, I just now had to remind two 'B' females to say 'thank you' or to conclude transistion at fast food resturant other than just handing custimer food and not say anything...that's directly do to how they were raised.

But suprisingly they actually both listened, as if they actually wanted, desired a 'Parent' loving enough to 'correct them'...very odd.

The composition of the hood is beginning to change, as demigraphics begin to change and shift, as poorer 'w' folks, elderly 'w' folks, begin once again populating areas their parents fled a generation ago, but news flash folks and that is living 30 + miles away from resources costs money, especially as you age and may not have access to a vehicle, and or able to make payments on some suburban large house, so what do people do, they migrate back towards the cities they or their parents fled a generation ago, and when they, these older suburban types come back to the city, they also bring their racially embedded bias ways with them, their little snippy barking dogs with them, their paranoid minds with them, and you can feel the change.

In urban areas, you never see husband and wife signing leases together, just single females

All that being said, men, males, are becoming a dying breed it seems, at least in urban areas, I mean working class males, for at least where I stay all you really see signing leases are clumps of females, klans of females as in Mothers/daughters moving in together or Lesbians, or sisters or any other combo of females, but what you don't see anymore is husband and wife moving in, or boyfriend and girlfriend, both with jobs, moving in.

You do see Lady signing lease, then 'leach' boyfriend crashing at the pad, you do see that, but what seems to be so rare now in hood or working class hood/urban areas are responsible employed, non criminal males, of any color...and I've observed responsible males bring confidence to an area, without responsible males all you get is paranoid minds, and scared women, and criminals.

Would not matter if I were straight or gay, black or white (I leave out other ethncities that still have non anglo culture to them).

But it would not matter, gay or straight or cross dresser and fill in the blank, the last person I'd want to date or marry is someone who was only raised up in the hood area.

If a man, I'd never marry a woman who grew up without a Father, for my ways as a Father would be foreign to her and she'd soon divorce me and I'd be stuck with mild payments.

And as a woman, I'd never want to marry some dude raised in the hood without a Father, cause well, just look at the news headlines.

I'd never want to marry a knowingly dysfunctional person, not that whites or blacks or Hispanics or Asians, living in rural areas or with degrees can't be dysfunctional, cause everyone has issues, but at least most of those issues are relationship destroying issues.

I'd avoid white guys, raised in the hood areas also.

You need someone with a solid foundation, someone who has a model of how a relationship should flow, and you only get that from being raised by two parents early on in life, even if they divorce later, while a teen, the impression has already been left.