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Post by X factor on Jul 12, 2023 8:05:43 GMT -5
At least back during the racism decades, whites, as a whole, had the political and social will to keep people in their place, not anymore, now do to this new 'woke' breed of whites, they've allowed rogue urban thug culture to spread all throughout society.
As a person of color, I'll gladly go back to the 1960's, where at least I could feel safe in the neighborhood I lived in, compared to today.
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Post by X factor on Oct 1, 2023 1:14:04 GMT -5
Why can't more black guys smile, and project happiness like this? Seems old school black males were OK with smiling, or maybe just if from a different stock, or class. Not sure if those bred on the streets could ever be so relaxed. But I just get sick of how black males today or portraid in the media. Rap, and that whole thug culture, totally butchered the image of the black male, in my opinion. I mean, I guess, looking tough, being tough, does have it's place, but it shouldn't dominate who you are all the time...in my opinion.
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Post by X factor on Dec 24, 2023 0:05:19 GMT -5
Moving, as a single, older B male (possibly future podcast)
Moving is already nervracking enough, and it only get's worse as you age.
Actually, when young, younger, moving can be a very exciting endeavor. cause when young, you're whole perspective on life is different, and you still think everyone likes you, and that you're 'cool', so who wouldn't want you as a neighbor.
But as we age, at least for most of us, that optimism about moving is no longer there, especially if a older working class male of color, and or worse yet, considered black.
One thing that comes with age is self awareness, or I should say that comes with maturity, and that is you become aware of how others perceive you or others 'like you' ( )
And as a B male, you begin to learn pretty early on in life that once you leave your youthful core group of friends, of all colors and stripes, well once you leave that circle, you begin to realize you're not really like at all much by strangers, and or society as a whole.
To be continued...
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Post by X factor on Jan 2, 2024 11:23:09 GMT -5
If you're a B male, or even older W male, no one cares that you're feeling suicidal ect, when you're an older male, most want you dead and gone anyways, especially if a older B male.
The only time people pretend to care if you're suicidal is if you're some young white male twink, or some younger white female.
In other words the more soxy you are to others, the more they will be concerned about your mental state, and be all lubby dubby towards you.
But if you're not soxy to others, forget about it, no one cares whether you live or die, other than your family, if lucky enough to have one.(Or if some famous person)
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Post by X factor on Feb 2, 2024 0:44:37 GMT -5
I don't think being a male, especially a B male, means you have to portray yourself as some tough monster all the timeNor do I think, as a male, especially a B male, just cause you want to portray yourself outside of normal stereotype pose or image, does that mean you're gay, or have to have any soxual connotation at all. Admittedly, W males are allowed (even Asian males, as in Oriental Asians) are allowed a wider range of expression without people thinking they're gay. 1. A W male can look cute...no one assumes they're gay. 2. A Asian male can look cute, no one assumes they're gay. 3. But if B, and male, and look cute, everyone and their momma thinks you're gay, now why is that? And to some degree Hispanic males also, who to bear that ultra-macho man burden. When I look in the mirror, or pose for self in a portrait, sorry, but I don't want to see a monster. If other males like looking like Orcs from Lord of the rings, fine....and most of the time I probably look that way...lol. But sometimes I like to force myself to bring out other sides of myself that totally go against society...it's called artistic liberation.
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Post by X factor on Jul 17, 2024 4:20:33 GMT -5
Why do black males tend to make themselves look like monsters?
Not all, of course, but more than in other ethnicities.
And black mothers love giving their sons the most dull bland haircuts ever, just short scraggly hair, teaching son early on in life that 'Hey son, you're a B male, therefore you're to be bland and ugly'...
I mean you don't see white or Asian or Indian mothers shaving the heads of their sons bald.
Black women, on all the entire planet earth, are the only ones who keeps their sons hair shaved bald...why?
Hair is made to grow and by styled, if you style your daughters hair than by god style your sons hair, like Will Smith did with his son.
You may be dull and bland and narrow minded, but please don't make your son that way.
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Post by X factor on Jul 17, 2024 4:25:17 GMT -5
I don't think being a male, especially a B male, means you have to portray yourself as some tough monster all the timeNor do I think, as a male, especially a B male, just cause you want to portray yourself outside of normal stereotype pose or image, does that mean you're gay, or have to have any soxual connotation at all. Admittedly, W males are allowed (even Asian males, as in Oriental Asians) are allowed a wider range of expression without people thinking they're gay. 1. A W male can look cute...no one assumes they're gay. 2. A Asian male can look cute, no one assumes they're gay. 3. But if B, and male, and look cute, everyone and their momma thinks you're gay, now why is that? And to some degree Hispanic males also, who to bear that ultra-macho man burden. When I look in the mirror, or pose for self in a portrait, sorry, but I don't want to see a monster. If other males like looking like Orcs from Lord of the rings, fine....and most of the time I probably look that way...lol. But sometimes I like to force myself to bring out other sides of myself that totally go against society...it's called artistic liberation. I agree, no one was born to be or feel ugly. But society always needs a boogie 'man', so to speak, and black folks have allowed society to mold their image into the white mans nightmare, and even blacks do the same to other blacks now.
White/Asian males are free to look as cute as they want, but if a black male wants to look cute, all kinds of ugly connitations are attached to them, not by whites, but by other narrow minded, insecure on the inside, hostile, mean black folks.
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Post by X factor on Jul 17, 2024 4:30:44 GMT -5
Black folks, most, more so than other groups, are just mentally damaged on the inside...and I say this as a person of color.
The language they use, always saying the 'ngga' word so casually, always feeling that racism is the problem, when in reality it's their own terrible behavior that's the problem.
Always littering, throwing trash on the ground. If you want to know where all the black folks live, just look for the trash on the ground.
Black folks love to litter, even right where they live...they litter, and could give a dam about the environment...that's because the majority of city raised black folks in America are mentally damaged!!
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Post by X factor on Sept 24, 2024 22:40:22 GMT -5
B males below the age of 30, maybe 35, are dumb as ___ to me.
Rap rap rap rap rap...no matter what time of the day...rap, coming from car stereo when pull up.
No diversity of music, just thump thump rap to match the low IQ thump thump brain.
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Post by X factor on Oct 5, 2024 21:49:21 GMT -5
This is why people love the physical make up of younger W males, cause they're just charming (at least when they want to be) And looks effects perception. If others percieve you to be soft and nice, they tend to treat you that way, and give more leeway to you to make mistakes, and mess up, cause they find you 'cute' and or 'adorable'. Is that fair?...no, but it's how it is.Also, it helps to 'love' yourself or to come from an environment that teaches how 'great' you are, and or your ancestors. This mindset starts at a very young age. And was really at it's height like 30 years ago, not sure so much today. I think W males (any male) can be beautiful and elegant without being gay..not sure why so many, especially in the black and Hispanic and middle east cultures think that if a male is cute, than they must be gay. I think rather if a cute male turns you on, it maybe means you're gay...or, or, maybe there's nothing wrong with being attracted to soxy people, regardless their gender. This idea that men can only physically be attracted to women, says who? I mean to me, this guy exhibits more traits I used to associate with women, than most, at least, B urban women do today. 1. Hands, look how soft his hands are...no long nails, none of that odd bizzar stuff, just plain ole soft hands...that's what I like...as a male I'm just not into all that nail stuff, just not..I like simple and soft. 2. Their feet, same thing...most women, particularly B women, could take a lesson from this guy...look how soft and friendly their feet are. Many urban women, these days, grow, again, these jagged, long T-nails that just repulse me on site. Feet shouldn't look like weapons. And sadly, I think many W women are starting to copy the freakish urban style of B women, not sure why. 3. The elegant walk, sure it's a fashion show, but still, most B urban women I see today walk like butch, talk like butch and are built like butch. I just can't be attracted to women who look, act, and walk tougher than I do...and look like goblins or male drag queens with exaggerated clownish features. But yeah, this guy could walk in anywhere and be loved and embraced for their physical traits...again, is that fair?...no, but that's life. But also, W males have a short window in which to kind have that androgynous fem look to them, most lose it after, say, the age of 25, unless work very hard to keep their skin soft, like women do. Guys have rough course skin simply cause they neglect their skin. A guys skin can be just as soft as a woman's skin, if they simply used skin care products.
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