Male beauty thoughts and comments

This idea that just because on is male, than one must neglect their physical appearance has always annoyed me.

Cause to me skin is skin, and either you take care of your skin or you don't, the skin doesn't know which gender it is, all the skin knows is either you take care of it or you do not.

And there's nothing more annoying to me than seeing older men, males, who fail or failed to take care of their skin when younger, and throughout life, and not to mention it's an unfair thing to do to your wife, if married.

Most men in the west, and other places I suppose, just trained to be OK with being a slob, in looks and in behavior.

Here's what I see a lot of, older men who failed to cosmetically take care of themselves, then when older, divorced, and on a average salary, no women wants to be with them.

Younger women mainly only like older men if they're wealthy, if a guy is wealthy, lady don't care about thier looks, but if older, and ugly, with charred chappy neglected skin, the only woman will be able to get is one you find at a Hotel.

Women's skin is no different than male skin, the only difference is women, the average woman, spends a lot more time taking care of their skin, not all but most, and as with them, you can tell the ones who didn't, as they age.

I've seen a man and woman do the exact same type of blue collar job, yet at end of day, beggining of day, the lady always looks 'brand new'...same dirty job, driving a truck, or ect...the man always looks like a slob, basically, yet female doing the same job, always looks 'brand new and clean'...now why is that?

It's do to mindset, nothing more or less than mindset.

Females are simply trained, since youth, to always be aware of how they look while in public, and most men, trained since youth, to be OK looking like a slob in public.

The only acception to that rule for men are those into business professions, or into politics, or entertainment, where one is basically paid to look good and project a clean image.

But outside of those fields, most males, once over the age of 40, who neglected their skin, look extra aged, particulalry if 'white'...since 'white' skin more vulnerable to Sun damage, radiation damage from the sun, is why even more important for men with 'white' skin to use lotion, creams, ect, as do their female counter parts, to me it's just common sense.

It's you skin, why not take care of it?

Anyways, I just ordered some skin care products from Amazon, and when arrive will give some reviews...heck, if I can look younger, have softer skin, reverse the effects of aging, why not.

It's not a gender thing to want to look young and feel healthy for as long as one can, it's a common sense thing and self preservation thing to me, and more and more to others.

And males need to learn to take care of their feet also!



Look, if I'm a pretend female, and you're a male and my Husband, please do take care of your feet, don't be coming home and hoping in our hypothetical bed with dirty gritty feet and all, or I'll jump out the bed and go sleep on the couch.

If you're a male, please do learn to take care of your feet, no reason for your feet to look like banana republic type feet, ever heard of vasaline or lotion or baby oil or olive oil..yes, no??

Here's the thing about how different men age

Old men usually only soxy when wealthy, but if old, male and near broke, basically a bum to most women, and bum and a burden, OK...

Now blue collar men, when they age, they tend to retain more of their sox appeal, cause they worked all their lives and usually still have 'studly' bodies, but when 'white collar' males age, they just go to waste real quick, cause never exercised...but in prime probably looked better than the dump truck driver type male..

And different ethnic groups or skin tones age differently to.

White skin glows, when young, looks well on TV, in magazines, in the movies, especially those old black and white movies, white skin just glows and appears flawless.

But in reality the Sun, radiation, tearing the crap out of white skin, unless stay out the sun or learn to use sun block.

Darker skin usually ages better...but can be a bit creepy talking to a older darker skinned person who you think is 35, and turns out their like 80, cause they barely age...

Well I'm a male, and why should I dress up or groom, cause I work around other post soxual males who look half dead and spent.

At least if I worked around openly gay or sissy males, they'd at least compliment me.

Heck, I wouldn't even mind being smacked on the butt now and then, by either sox or gender, I would like the attention and would not complain.

I'm a male, and ordered some vitamin C type of facial skin softner stuff.

It should arrive today, hell ye I'm going to use it, unlike most other men or males, I like looking young and taking care of my face and skin.

Continued from above....yep, just checked, and order not even shipped yet cause item getting such good reviews, so tomorrow will order a less popular facial cream or oil product or products, cause now getting excited about facial care, I mean who doesn't want to look more youthful and vibrant, not just to others, but to self?

It's called 'anti aging syrum', and bugs me how they always and only show women in the adds, I mean how soxist, this idea that only women should care about how they look, or looking young.

Bunk that, males should also care about their skin and looking youthful, regardless their age.

And that's the idea I'll push on here.

My facial youth serum has arrived



The above IS NOT the same product I got, I got the 'Tree of Life' youth serum, but it came in similar bottles....why not, I'm going to give it a try, and below is a video of 'a guy' applying his own brand of youth serum...they're kind of 'light on the feet', but none the less I think it's important that people see that it's OK for males to take care of their skin, skin is skin, and this idea that only gay males and or woman should take care of their skin is absurd.