Male beauty thoughts and comments

I want to order current athletic wear, suddenly

Here's my thing, it seems so many males I see just 'give up' on style and fashion as soon as become married, and start letting their wives buy their clothing for them.

And or, even in what I call 'working class hood areas', where you see males, between 25-45 who just totally lack any sense of style and fashion and or even fitness, black, white, whatever.

I don't want to be one of them, not so much for others, but for myself.

I'll never forget when at work once, at a 'stop' in Orlando, FL, at some grungy warehouse, and the security guard, when they saw me said ''Wow, you look so fresh'

Meaning I looked athletic, tall, yet toned, and in shape, like a athlete would who just stepped off a team bus.

Well I'm no athlete, but I've learned it helps to think like one, even when at work.

And now lately, I just want to look 'Fresh' all of the time, at work, or not, rather than looking 'spent', tired and lost.

So, I'm going to go on a athletic buying binge here soon to freshen up my wardrobe.

When single you can do that...I mean why not, who else is going to buy stuff for you.

Males are capable of having a beauty all their own, without trying to be 'female'



Your body will obey you, it's yours to sculpt, if want soft feet, doesn't matter your gender, take care of feet and make them soft.

And if a male, and have soft feet, whether in real life or in art, that has nothing to do with your 'orientation'.

That's the biggest trap ever is when society always assumes that just because a guy desires to look or feel pretty at times, that they're gay?

That doesn't even make sense, I mean this idea that women have a complete copyright on beauty?

That's straight out of industrialized, colonialization hell.

Ancient and tribal males use to always adorn themselves in color, and paint and feathers and ect.

Then industry arrived, and the 'white man' stripped native peoples of their 'color' and through them into fields to be nothing more than bland, colorless labor.

Not here, not here, here, males are allowed to shine as their spirit sees fit.

And I also see why body hair is good for ya, in that hair attracts micro irritants like a magnet.

It keeps fine dust particals, germs, and probably some viruses from landing on the skin, so it's not really good to just have bare clean shaven skin, even if a woman.

Because I'm still single, I constantly have to look presentable to myself, in order to keep my
own moral up



As a older single male, I have to look good, not nessisarily for others, but rather for myself, for my own moral.
Cause when home, alone, and look in the mirror, it's myself I see.

And but I do notice guys or males who are in loving or committed relationships tend to let themselves go, why?
Probably cause once you feel totally loved or that someone is committed to you, looks don't tend to matter as much, cause you know the person you're with loves you beyond what you look like.
But when single, no one loves you, especially if don't look presentable, so you approach your looks and grooming habits differently...I suppose.

It's why I can always tell guys who are married, cause they all look like slobs, where as single guys or males, who are single, tend to still groom themselves as if in college again.

I hate how when I want to order male clothing online, I hate how they always make the male models look beefed and muscular.

Why?

I don't like that template of what a male is suppose to be or look like.

I just don't like anything that is standard.

Not all males have that jock build or look to them.

Just like not all women are super thin models, well not all men are some Olympian, go to the gym daily, type of body.

It annoys me that you hardly ever see males shopping for clothing at discount stores, as if it's taboo to be a male and actually shop for your own clothing.

Well I do, so tough.

Instead you always see women in the mens section buying their clothing for them, I guess....and that annoys me also, I mean you don't see me all up in the female section buying women clothing for myself or girlfriend of wife, if I had one.

I have found some very cool male clothing at discount clothing stores, cool shorts, shirts, and more, why should I let women have all the fun of shopping?

I could never date any female who felt it her role to buy my clothes for me, as if I'm some Ken dress up doll.

Men who stop buying their own clothing are the ones who dress very dull, and fail to stand out.

When you start letting your wife or girlfriend buy your clothing, you're done.

I want a pair of these shoes



It's been years since I've owned a pair of white sneakers, now I want a pair again.

Maybe since in high school, maybe middle school, since I've owned a pair of white sneakers, but now I want a pair again, and these sketchers seem cool to me.