Love, Romance and Dating, and the complexities of

Off all the women on the planet who could move in next to me, how come olden golden senior citizens below, Fat Albert type female next to me, and below them Lesbians?

What the F man.

Why I don't go out anymore (covid aside)

Why don't I go out anymore with intention of meeting anyone???

1. Older now, if did meet someone, not sure what I'd do with them.

2. Most people are the same to me now, beg them to like you, promise them the world, and barely get their attention, just to find out later they're dating a bum.

3. Even though older now, when go out, especially if drinks involved, to to act like I'm still in high school

4. Hard to find places where people are like 'me'.

5. Although could spend like crazy while inside, I don't own a Porsche, so when outside person would probably scoff, or their friends would.

And I could list a few other reasons why I just don't do the 'night life' anymore.

6. Could also add between cops looking to pull you over and those looking to car jack you, night life can be dangerous these days.

Man arrested for 'cyberstalking' a woman he'd just met on 'Tinder' dating site

www.msn.com/en-us/news/crime/i-m-not-capable-of-being-your-friend-jacksonville-man-arrested-accused-of-cyberstalking-woman-after-tinder-date/ar-BB1gU9UH?ocid=msedgntp

(read full story above)

Man arrested for cyberstalking, which is a 3rd degree felony, after, I guess, they kept bothering a woman he'd met about 10 days earlier on 'Tinder' the dating site.

That's a odd charge, I guess if you're a man or woman, and keep pestering someone after they tell you to stop, than you'd better stop or else get slapped with a 'cyber stalking' charge, and it's a felony at that, that's going to follow him around for the rest of his life, will effect employment, future relationships, benefits and more.

America, I think, has more laws on the book than near any other civilized nation, is why jails and prisons so filled to the brim or rim.

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And it's why I just stay to myself most of the time, I don't socialize hardly at all, cause seems when you do you get in trouble more, piss people off, and if dating it's even worse.

A woman can lie on you, cops still have to come check it out whether true or not.

But back to above article where you'll see picture of the guy, I guess they had 'romance' like the first night they met, in other words got under the sheets or on top of them..but wow, since I don't date humans, odd how women give it up so fast, and always to the wrong person.

Not sure why I avoid all those current 'hit and go' dating type of apps.

I don't know, I just think it weird, in this day and age, to either go to some one's residence, or them to yours, have sox one time, then never see them again, but now they know where you live.

That just seems odd to me.

I just wish could still meet people the old fashion way, but once out of school, high school, college, or unless work in a place with equal amount of genders, than seems it gets hard to just meet random stranger on the streets.

We usually fall for those we work around on a daily basis or go to school with, cause in those settings you get to examine people over a long period of time, and get to develop friendship first.

Also, people act, or I should say dumb people think that gay people don't make distinctions on whom they're attracted to.
In other words, your typical type thinks that if gay, and a male, than that gay male is attracted to all other males, regardless of color, heritage, weight, height, style, personality, educational level, social status and more.
Gay and Lesbian types don't throw out their discretion towards others just because they're same gender attracted.

Gay males can be very particular about what type of other male they're attracted to.

I think if I had a good friend, or friends, or a lover, I don't think I'd have anymore reason to ever really be online, or social media, I mean as it is right now, social media adds zero to my life, I mean all the different social media sites out there, and they add zero to my life.

I use to think they did, but they don't.

Life, interaction, is about more than a 'like', or 'thumbs up' symbol from someone you don't even know, or views, ect, meaningless in the over all scheme of things.

I get more emotional kick out of interacting with 1 real person in a day, than a week spent on social media sites pretending that I matter.

Also, when I use to drink, being on social media provided a safe stage I suppose.



and on this fake stage known as social media, it allowed me and others, to 'act out', but from the safety of home.
Explore other sides of self, from the safety of home and behind a keyboard, but other than that, social media has served me zero purpose over the years.

I mean some do actually get traction and are able to monetize their social media presence, but I'm not one of those, I just neve took it that serious.
I'm grounded in the blue collar world, that's how I earn my check, is from actual physical manual labor, not from websites or adds ect.

I'm just not a tech person, you gotta love that stuff to make money from it.

Anyways, just got back from exercising now time to do something else.