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Post by X factor on May 3, 2022 9:53:01 GMT -5
Continued from above post.
Also, as you age, regardless your orientation, flesh becomes less and less apart of the meaning of a relationship.
Instead, other things stand out as in loyalty, faithfulness, personality, morality, ect.
But the gay community, some, at least younger ones, really focus on the physical, and is why older gay men (not sure about the women) usually live very lonely lives. Cause in the gay world, once you lose your sox appeal, you become worthless to most or many in that realm.
According to a show I saw on TV once.
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Post by X factor on May 3, 2022 10:05:35 GMT -5
Continued from above post. Also, as you age, regardless your orientation, flesh becomes less and less apart of the meaning of a relationship. Instead, other things stand out as in loyalty, faithfulness, personality, morality, ect. But the gay community, some, at least younger ones, really focus on the physical, and is why older gay men (not sure about the women) usually live very lonely lives. Cause in the gay world, once you lose your sox appeal, you become worthless to most or many in that realm. According to a show I saw on TV once.
According to Dr of Engineering at Honda, no one wants to be burdened with a older broke male, and it takes a really special woman to fall in love with an older guy, who's lost their sox appeal, and who is near broke or living check to check.
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Post by X factor on Jun 3, 2022 23:29:12 GMT -5
I'm just not into women who look like and dress like drag queens
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Post by X factor on Jun 15, 2022 20:48:57 GMT -5
I think I'm realizing something, and that is I don't need another this, or another that, or a cool car, or to get certified in this, or educated in that.
I think what's really lacking in my life is a meaningful relationship with another, and or in other words my own family, which, at least in the past, began with another.
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 16:39:38 GMT -5
I'm lonely and would like to have or start a family of my own, but that's so much easier said than done.
Women can just get pregnant with any ole guy, the guy could be a bum, a criminal, a jerk, a monster, no matter, cause once the female is pregnant now she has a instant family, with or without the man.
But with males, it's not so easy, cause obviously males cannot get pregnant, and so must find a wife or girlfriend who won't leave them, and so forth.
And males can't just adopt, not unless a millionaire and live in a mansion or very well off.
The only way a male can have a family is they have to be lucky enough to find a woman who'll stay with him after the mild is born, these days, good luck with that.
It's kind of unfair actually, cause a woman can be a jerk, out and right unfit person, yet all a female has to do to have a family is get pregnant, now that female is a instant mom.
But what about the male who got that female pregnant?...what about his rights?...other than mild support payments.
To be honest, I doubt i'll ever find an American wife or lover, or would have by now..so maybe I should start looking elsewhere.
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 16:40:27 GMT -5
All these dern immigrants flooding over the border, surely I could marry one of them...if knew where they were.
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 16:45:34 GMT -5
Craigslist use to be an easy place to just plaster your thoughts up on a wall, so to speak, it was easy and free, then they shut down their dating section, and now where do you go?
C/L was easy, free and simple.
On C/L you could just post 'seeking migrant spouse' ect ect'...for free, but now where do you go to express that?
Dating site? Are you hobbitding me?
I hate dating sites....they're more sleezy than craigslist, and I hate hook up apps even more!
I think I'm just going to have to like create a sign, and go out into the public, get some publicity and advertise what I want.
Then the news will show up and millions will see, and then and only then will I get what I want.
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 16:47:18 GMT -5
Either that or run a radio add (wonder if I could even afford that though).
Run a radio add saying 'Hey, I'm single and would like a spouse, ect ect'..hmm
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 16:48:59 GMT -5
Or just go out on the streets, I mean with all these homeless people now, I'm sure there's some desperate person I could sweep of their feet and train to like and love me.
The only problem with that is drugs, usually homeless people, not all, but some, are addicted to drugs, and the last thing I need is to invite a drug user into my personal dwellings where they'd steal everything the minute I wasn't there.
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 17:31:27 GMT -5
Also, as a male, and probably a female also.
But as a male, the older you get the less interested you are in a wife, than you are having hobbits of your own, who are literally your own DNA.
As a male, women just seem less interesting to me as I age.
A woman who cannot give me my own hobbits, to me is no different than dating a transgender or cross dresser.
I mean if I cannot have hobbits of my own, then what does gender even matter?
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 17:33:32 GMT -5
I should just do like most guys, and just go out on the streets and meet any ole street gal, and start a family that way....instead of having all these high standards which has gotten me nowhere at all.
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Post by X factor on Jun 20, 2022 17:38:42 GMT -5
I hate dating sites, I really do.
The idea that you should have to pay, to find your match, I just don't like that concept.
And sets you up to be exploited just for money.
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Post by X factor on Jun 28, 2022 21:59:17 GMT -5
How dating sites fail older males who've yet to start families of their own
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Post by X factor on Nov 6, 2022 12:15:51 GMT -5
Dating, from a older womans perspective
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Post by X factor on May 2, 2023 20:19:21 GMT -5
Like in the movie 'Weird Science', from 1985, I wonder if AI can create you the perfect looking mate?
Like if you input in traits you want, ect, can AI then digest all the info and then create your perfect visual mate?
Hmm.
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