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Post by X factor on Dec 24, 2018 15:10:59 GMT -5
How come when gay people respond to your roommate add they think the followingHow come when gay people respond to your add, they think you either want to scr_w them, or they want to scr_w you?? Some person responded to my roommate add and they were like Blah blah, this that...and I'm a 'bottom'...what do I care that they're a bottom? I'm looking for a roommate, not a 'mate', why can't some gay people get that? I mean if a woman was responding to add, she, the women, wouldn't lead off by saying, 'Oh and by the way I'm submissive in bed'... See what I'm saying?? So why do some gay people always feel they must lead with their position preference? I did not ask for a 'bottom', I simply ran a add for a roommate...good grief... Turns out guy from above post is German. Wow from Nazi regime to 'I'm a bottom'...hmm. I really don't care, as long as I'm not expected to be their 'top'. |
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Post by X factor on Dec 24, 2018 15:12:43 GMT -5
Why can't I just find a normal roommate, someone who works, comes home tired and then sleeps?
How come all the people who respond to me are vampires, near death, or Bonnie and Clyde types, or whatever.
Do normal people even exist anymore I wonder?
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Post by X factor on Dec 24, 2018 21:34:57 GMT -5
I just turned phone off. I just give up on finding a roommate, I say that now but you know. Gay guy whom responded wants a mate, not a roommate, their soxuality is just to 'come on' for me. What, I'm I suppose to hope in bed with them the first night they're here? I don't get people these days. Or what if I turn off lights, and wake up with them next to me? They asked me if I were gay, and I told them 'I'm just me'.  Gay people don't like it when you say that, they want a definite yes or no. But to be honest with you that question doesn't make sense to me, not at all. I don't understand what gay or straight is, to be honest with you, sorry, but I'm just me. And people don't like when I say that. Am I that different from others? Maybe it's why I'm so alienated, or chose to alienate myself, cause I guess not properly trained in 'Earth talk'. I'm 'Me", I'm a life form, I'm alive as of now, what more am I suppose to be? Anyways, the other one who responded was some retired person, with small dog, their dog can be my housemate, but I don't need some retired person who's always home or we'd get on each others nerves. I sometimes create podcasts, and they'd think I were weird speaking to self on mic creating future show. Really I just want to live in gigantic mansion, kind of like the one in the background here, all by myself, just me, myself and I. |
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Post by X factor on Dec 25, 2018 9:11:08 GMT -5
I just realized something, and will audio blog it elsewhere online, but I just realize transgender types are less soxually aggressive than 'gay/lesbian' types.
In fact, I don't even think transgender types are into 'sox' at all, I think they're just fasinated with their own looks or ability to morph into something different.
Maybe this is the wrong section to post this, but I think I'd rather have a transgender roommmate than an aggressive gay roommate.
I don't even think transgender people have sox, or want to, maybe a hug, to be accepted (like all other life forms), but I don't think transgender people interested in soxual encounters.
I think Transgender people are like earthworms, in that they just kind of get it on with themselves, are aroused by 'self', thus don't really need no one else?
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Post by X factor on Dec 25, 2018 20:40:40 GMT -5
Avoid women who claim they're single, yet look like models...avoid these types...they will destroy you with lies and treachery...
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Post by X factor on Dec 25, 2018 20:44:04 GMT -5
Avoid women who claim they're single, yet look like models...avoid these types...they will destroy you with lies and treachery... Yes, basically women who post pics of themselves looking like models, yet single, will destroy your life. 2. Are cops 3. Or phycopaths (or however spelled)...avoid such types please. |
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Post by X factor on Dec 26, 2018 21:05:58 GMT -5
I don't want aggressive gay roommate who thinks I'll be their side mate on the side.
Why?
Cause such types can get jealous of you, and it can become like that movie 'Fatal attraction'.
This guy is from Germany.
Here's the thing about me, just cause I can be silly and playful at times, doesn't mean I want 'romance'.
And when I drink, I get a bit playful, or serious, just depends on current environment.
But if have some gay dude just waiting for me to 'slip', nah.
I need to be able to trust the person I'm rooming with, even if they're gay, I still need to be able to trust them and know my boundaries...example of that would be
Lets say one weekend I come home frustrated, have a few beers, then start acting theatrical, I need to know that even when I'm in state of silliness, 'gay' roommate would be like 'Hey, that's not really you, let me put you to bed or lay blanket over you.
See what I'm saying?
In other words you have to be able to trust that person your rooming with would respect your boundaries even if drunk, or depressed or this or that.
But if someone is just standing by waiting to 'exploit' you the minute you 'slip', than that's like having a monster living with you.
And that's how you really end up liking someone, or not caring about gender, is when you find someone who you really feel has your back, regardless of your vulnerable state at the time.
That's how I am, in that the soxiest person, male or female, could come at me, but if I felt 'it wasn't really them', I'd simply take on 'guardian role' at that time.
Even if they said 'I'm yours' (while drunk or depressed or other mood), if I felt it wasn't 'them', or that they weren't in right state of mind, I'd simply take on guardian role and put them to bed, or lay blanket over them ect.....that's just how I am.
I actually care about others, regardless of my own personal needs wants or desires.
I treat others as I'd want to be treated (I know that's an outdated term we all heard in Church), but that's what decent people do, we treat others as we'd want to be treated.
Evil people could care the less and just want to eat you.
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Post by X factor on Jan 4, 2019 13:29:03 GMT -5
Lets face it, the best way for common people to save money is through shared expenses, or having a roommate, as much of a pain as that may be.
If rent is $1000.00 a month, a good roommate can reduce that to $500.00
That's a lot of stress off your shoulders.
But if get bad, free loading roommate, could add up to more stress, and no rent, and just free loader, and that's the trick.
Most want the savings, but not the hassle of annoying roommate.
Some advice
If work during the day, than look for roommate who works night, so that home at opposite times.
Good luck
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Post by X factor on Jan 4, 2019 13:36:43 GMT -5
If single and alone, regardless of gender, will develop some kind of affection towards roommate no matter what.
That's just 'life'.
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Post by X factor on Jan 14, 2019 20:18:12 GMT -5
I know you all are probably sick of hearing about the roommate thing, but here's my issue.
I always run add, then get responses, then freak out.
When people actually respond I get scared and panic in that human beings are actually a big responsibility, and not sure if I want that responsibility or not.
I mean I think I'd rather be alone, and struggle, than to have a roommate that can't get rid of, and still struggle only now add being miserable to the list.
And it's like people don't read or listen to 'add'...
I want this, they're 'that'...they're that and I'm 'this'.
Yes, the money saving part would be great, but not if having to room with a social vampire.
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Post by X factor on Jan 14, 2019 20:30:04 GMT -5
I just deleted add...why do I always do this, run add, get responses, then freak out, then delete...
Again, humans, any human, is a great responsibility...and maybe it's because I'm so caring which makes me vulnerable....
People tend to take advantage of you if you're a caring type, they'll eat you up.
Play on your emotions.
Now suddenly you have vampire living with you that you can't get rid of.
Who needs that crap.
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Post by X factor on Jan 14, 2019 20:32:26 GMT -5
I just deleted add...why do I always do this, run add, get responses, then freak out, then delete... Again, humans, any human, is a great responsibility...and maybe it's because I'm so caring which makes me vulnerable.... People tend to take advantage of you if you're a caring type, they'll eat you up. Play on your emotions. Now suddenly you have vampire living with you that you can't get rid of. Who needs that crap. Or maybe you just need phyciatric help? Maybe you've been alone and isolated for so long, that need to learn how to be around humans again. |
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Post by X factor on Jan 14, 2019 20:34:52 GMT -5
I just deleted add...why do I always do this, run add, get responses, then freak out, then delete... Again, humans, any human, is a great responsibility...and maybe it's because I'm so caring which makes me vulnerable.... People tend to take advantage of you if you're a caring type, they'll eat you up. Play on your emotions. Now suddenly you have vampire living with you that you can't get rid of. Who needs that crap. Or maybe you just need phyciatric help? Maybe you've been alone and isolated for so long, that need to learn how to be around humans again. I'm so lonely I don't trust myself, I mean I'm so lonely that would probably fall in love with a goat, if goat were my roommate, and as such, I don't trust myself to live around another human being, not in a roommate setting anyways. |
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Post by X factor on Jan 14, 2019 20:36:59 GMT -5
And if I'm lonely, and new found roommate is 'needy', no telling what could happen at night, when alone, a few beers and bored...
Yuk...
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Post by X factor on Jan 14, 2019 20:39:33 GMT -5
And if I'm lonely, and new found roommate is 'needy', no telling what could happen at night, when alone, a few beers and bored... Yuk... You poor soul you, your problem is you're trying to be a Angel in a very dark world. |
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